Monday, June 27, 2011


Linkedin adalah professional network terbesar di dunia dengan 40 juta anggota dan sedang berkembang dengan sangat pesat. Linkedin mampu mempertemukan anda dengan orang-orang yang ada percaya dan membantu anda untuk saling bertukar ide, pengetahuan serta kesempatan dengan jaringan professional yang sangat besar.

join now LinkedIn disini

Pertanyaan anda mungkin adalah, apa saja manfaat yang dapat anda dapat dari Linkedin Professional Networking, berikut ini beberapa hal yang kita dapat :

Bangun Profil Profesional Anda Sendiri
1_smallLinkedin memberikan anda fasilitas untuk membuat dan mengontrol online profil anda sendiri. Memberikan informasi yang menurut anda penting untuk diketahui oleh professional lainnya, dan anda mampu mengontrol informasi itu sendiri. Kalau anda pusing dengan penjelasan ini, bayangkan saja anda menggunakan fasilitas komunitas dunia maya seperti facebook, friendster, atau social networking lainnya. di sini anda bisa juga masuk ke professional group di seluruh dunia loh…

Tetap Terhubung dengan Teman dan Kolega Anda
2_smallDunia informasi sangat bergerak cepat, begitu pula dunia profesional dimana orang-orang akan mengganti pekerjaan dan lokasi mereka secara konstan ataupun cepat. Melalui LinkedIn ini, informasi tersebut akan senantiasa terbaharui. Anda dapat meng-update informasi lokasi, pekerjaan, bahkan apa yang sedang anda lakukan di profile online anda. Seperti contohnya linkedin saya ini.
Anda juga tidak akan ketinggalan informasi ter-update dari teman atau kolega anda, mengenai pekerjaan mereka, lokasi mereka, apa yang sedang mereka kerjakan bahkan update dari blog mereka.

Temukan Seorang Ahli atau Ide di LinkedIn
3_smallAnda mungkin terkadang tidak dapat menyelesaikan sebuah tantangan bisnis yang unik di perusahaan anda. Bagaimana anda menyelesaikannya jika teman kantor anda pun tidak dapat membantu. Nah… solusinya bisa anda dapatkan di LinkedIn ini. silahkan ada mencari para ahlinya berdasarkan nama, pekerjaan, title, perusahaan dan keyword lainnya untuk mencari solusi buat anda. Atau bahkan bertukaran ide atau diskusi secara online.

Jelajahi Kesempatan di Depan Mata Anda
4_smallAnda mungkin percaya bahwa terkadang kesempatan itu tidak datang dengan sendirinya, tetapi harus diciptakan. LinkedIn professional Network ini mampu memberikan keduanya. Anda bisa mencari informasi pekerjaan baru, membangun reputasi profesional anda, dan menghubungkan anda dengan rekanan bisnis lainnya. Dengan bantuan search enginenya, anda mampu mencari informasi kesempatan tersebut.
Jadi, biarkan jaringan ini bekerja untuk anda, seperti resepnya Tiyosaki aja ya, lets the money works for you.

Nah selamat mencoba linkedIn ini
Join klik disini

Sumber/copas dari :


Link exchange with me, now you can exchange links with this blog, you simply enter your name and your url below this post, and please follow this blog to find out the latest news from this blog.
Link exchange in this blog are made simple to remember the page in your browser that may be very heavy, so not too hard anymore to be able to do a link exchange with you, I use Mr. Linky because it is easy and does not take place, can also accommodate thousands of links without fear of losing the old link, and we can choose a free or paid, you can choose according to your needs please register here to get a place as a link exchange

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Nice Diet

Super High Converting Weight Loss & Nutrition Site With Awesome Sales Video Filled With Real Content. Find Out How You Can Cash In Too:
Click Here!
First Million dollar fitness launch in History, still doing thousands of $$ in sales per day. You in? Avg Payout per customer after Upsells = $68. Average page conversion = 8.3%. Affiliates sign up at Click Here!
Others come and go, Burn the Fat is a perennial best-seller since 2002. Now with multiple landing pages catered to your audience. Always split testing to lift your conversions. Click Here!

Friday, June 17, 2011

One of our summer projects 2011

Well it took a while to get started due to the wet rainy spring and a needlessly drawn out permit process, but we are on our way to building a new outdoor environment for a lovely family in San Rafael.

Here are a few progression shots.

Starting with a detail from the plans :
From Oranje project

Before shots
The existing pink flagstone patio was cracking apart - it had to go. It was becoming a safety hazard and pretty unsightly. Fortunately we were able to save a lot of the flagstone and offer it for a discounted sale through American Soil and Stone in San Rafael. Someone got a great deal !
From Oranje project

location of the new fireplace
From Oranje project

From Oranje project

We took off the pink flagstone on this round patio and resurfaced it , so it will match the rest of the new stone
From Oranje project

Building shots
The new resurfaced round stone patio
From Oranje project

laying out the steel
From Oranje project

The block work and new stone work
From Oranje project

detail of stone
From Oranje project

From Oranje project

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Form Filling Jobs

My Name is rachmad bayu tanoyo, recently I visited one website which is providing lots of home jobs. When I visited the website i found it very genuine and convincing and great support. Currently I m working with them and earning a nice regular income. I'm sure you are going to like it to. Please find below its details -

If you want to spend Just an hour in a day to make some income, this is the right Job. All you've to do here filling of online forms. No lengthy forms No work load, No account termination. You'll also get form filling software, using the same you can fill each form in less than a second. For Each Form Filling Get Paid $1 USD to $2.25 USD. Maximum Earning $11250 USD P.M.

Instant Adsense Cash


My Name is rachmad bayu tanoyo, recently I visited one website which is providing lots of home jobs. When I visited the website i found it very genuine and convincing and great support. Currently I m working with them and earning a nice regular income. I'm sure you are going to like it to. Please find below its details -

Get Professional Google Adsense Website. Guaranteed Earning of $100 per day. Monthly Earning is $5000+. Our Experts create unique Adsense site with professional design & contents that attract traffic & Clicks from Visitors. 100% Money Back Guarantee.

10 Minute Job Work

My Name is rachmad bayu tanoyo, I found one of the best and very interesting home jobs which may surely going to like. Please find below its details -

10 Minute Job Work, is one of the latest on demand Job work released by Because of huge requests from people worldwide to have job work which can be really done in 10 Minutes. Our 10 Minute Job Work is for those you really want to make extra income in their spare time. Today anyone can easily spend 10 Minutes a day to do the task. This 10 Minute Job Work will easily pay all your monthly bills and can even do extra shopping's for you.

Visit it using below link

MaxMoney Investment

My Name is rachmad bayu tanoyo, recently I visited one website which is providing lots of home jobs. When I visited the website i found it very genuine and convincing and great support. Currently I m working with them and earning a nice regular income. I'm sure you are going to like it to. Please find below its details -

World's Highest Returns on Investment - MaxMoney. Get Paid upto 1080% (Daily 3% Interest) returns annually on your investment amount (Refundable). Fixed Deposit at bank will only pay at the most 9% returns annually. Change Your Way of Living Now with MaxMoney Investment.

Click here

Friday, June 3, 2011

Getting Back to Magnetic Sex

Most couples remember a time when sex drew them together, made them want to cling hungrily to each other. Making love magnetized them, and so magnetized, they wanted even more sex.

Oh, to spin 'round again in that happy circle!

Is it still possible? Or does monogamy inevitably foster monotony? It sure seems to for many couples. In a response to my article on Corey Allan's Simple Marriage blog, a reader I’ll call Josh wrote:

“My personal weakness is for watching strip teases.... What I find thrilling is seeing a beautiful woman with a great body who is proudly, happily, and excitedly stripping her clothes off for her special viewer. I’m turned on to her excitement and willingness to share her sexiness.

“My wife suffers from very low self-esteem. She thinks her body is ugly, and the thought of doing a strip tease for me terrifies her. I’ll agree, she doesn’t have a model body. But I believe that if she had that confidence, she would be very sexy to me. She used to be addicted to pornography to dull the pain in her very unfortunate teenage life, so she knows the ‘standard of sexiness.’ She won’t allow herself to believe she’s sexy, therefore, until she has a supermodel body. Personally, I get very discouraged because I don’t think that’s ever going to happen. One reason I go to pornography is because I have a need to feel deeply attracted to a woman, and though I love my wife and she’s my best friend, her insecurities prevent her from being deeply attractive to me.

“I am drawn to pornography because I want to feel that thrilling attraction to a young woman. I fantasize that she is my mate, and that she is willing to give me that sexual excitement over and over again because she loves me. However, when my wife finds out about this situation, she is very hurt. She feels that she has been replaced, and becomes frightened that she will be tossed aside and abandoned, confirming that she is worthless. It’s a lose-lose situation.

“Watching pornography also lowers my self-esteem. It makes me feel like an animal. When I’ve been watching it often, I undress women I pass in the street in my mind, then evaluate them based on their sexual excitement potential. I generally tend to have far more passionate sex and more intense orgasms, but that’s because when I’m making love with my wife in the dark, fantasies of making love to the women I saw on the screen send my imagination into overload. Then, I am left feeling depressed that all of those beautiful women are not my mates, that my mate is really not that sexually attractive at all.

“While watching pornography is extremely exciting and a motivating factor pushing my wife to be a sexy partner, I also feel guilt about watching it, it leads me to be dishonest with my wife and my employer, and makes me feel disappointed in my wife and feel regret for marrying her. It also makes me critical of her, which pushes her in the opposite direction of healing from this problem. I am therefore doing everything I can to eliminate pornography by attending a weekly addiction recovery group with other men who have lost their wives and children because of it.

“But that alone is not the answer. I am desperate to figure out what can be done that will help my wife gain the confidence and the emotional security to feel that she can open up with me sexually and be a really fun and enticing sexual partner.”

Josh and Kaitlin are in a downward spiral. Their problem is shared by many couples.

Our sexual sensibilities have been so swayed by pornography, we’re now more focused than ever on appearance and performance. Our porn-saturated minds have been backed into a corner of consciousness during sex. Heightened awareness loops back and forth between the brain and the genitals, what we’re seeing and how we’re doing, but rarely ventures anywhere else. Outside stimulants (pornography or even another human being) are there to be "consumed" as "input" by the brain in order to have the desired effect on the genitals, which hopefully then has the desired effect on the dopamine circuits of the brain, and so on. Our partner becomes little more than "the other body" rattling around within an otherwise vacuous energy system.

To be emotionally on our own during lovemaking is particularly lonely. Don’t misunderstand, I’m not suggesting that it disconnects a couple when one partner gets lost in the depths of delight at the cusp of orgasm. Neither does stimulating one's own genitals during sex. Rather, the human connection is hindered rather than strengthened when a porn-saturated partner is routinely "out of it" during sex, "lost in their own world," allowing their interest in their own stimulation or performance to eclipse this living, breathing human being who would like to connect with them. Sex, which can so potently attach us to our beloved and electrify the relationship becomes just another mood altering drug. Being another person’s fix can feel pretty empty.

A more deeply personal, emotionally engaged sex life is one of the best reasons to give up porn and one of the greatest rewards for doing so, but it requires a new approach. It's a challenge to practice relationship-oriented sex when auto-eroticism has been the familiar path of least resistance.

Here’s how I responded to Josh:

“To enhance the likelihood that sex will connect rather than detach the two of you as partners, pay attention to the loop of energy and communication that flows back and forth as you express and receive physical affection from Kaitlin.

“As the two of you begin to come together physically, focus on what you feel in your heart when you attend to her. Then, let the touch of your hand on her shoulder blade, the press of of your hips against hers, express that energy. Look into her eyes to see what’s in her heart. Are the signals you’re sending by way of your touch making it all the way down into her soul?

“Perhaps not yet. That’s okay, keep trying. Use your voice. Might your words and your mmm’s and aaahh’s pierce through the fog of separateness and reestablish that precious soul-to-soul link? By way of your voice, convey your feelings. Messages so sent need not stop at the ears or the brain. Let them reverberate more deeply.

“Skin and lips and tongue and even genitals may be the concrete means of communication, but the messages are being sent spirit to spirit.

“Let yourself receive her words, her touch in the same manner. Making love in this way awakens entirely new possibilities and vitality. You’ll rise above the stimulant/brain/genital loop that has isolated you from ‘refreshing’ input from Kaitlin, this real, live, warm, breathing, human other.

“The focus turns from appearance and performance to mindful attunement to what’s real now–two individuals and a dynamic mix of feelings, sights, sound, textures, and smells. Lovemaking as a vehicle to connect soul-to-soul and mingle your very essence with hers brings a new level of excitement and immediacy. Porn, sex toys, and your wildest fantasies can’t hold a candle to what emotional connection does for sex.

“As the two of you are becoming intimate, what if Kaitlin expresses hesitation and self-doubt? Ask her to give you the gift of staying in touch with what is genuinely passing between the two of you instead of reverting to what she thought she saw in the mirror earlier in the day or the sexual trauma that occurred back when she was single. Keep your mind on her when it’s used to wandering to the strip teasing mental mistresses. You may keep the light on so that you can look deep into her eyes in hopes that she will see that you don’t want the dissatisfaction of mutual disconnection anymore. Express your willingness in this way to really be with her here and now.

“Here is another human being giving you the gift of her attention. If she feels insecure and her eyes downcast, she is being emotionally real with you in that moment. Don’t regret that, be with her there, in that feeling. Let it into your heart. Then let your heart respond to that and convey that response by way of touching her cheek, looking at her, embracing her, vocalizing words and soothing sounds. It may be compassion you’re conveying, but also a different view: an appreciation and a hope that she will allow in the esteem you hold for her and your desire for her (and no other woman) to come out from behind her shield and play with you sexually, fully share herself with you. It will require sacrifice to truly be with each other in this way, but what each of you gain will be well worth what you’ll be giving up.”

Because of the discouragement he had expressed, I assumed that Josh and Kaitlin might have a way to go to get to what I was describing. Imagine how delighted was to get this response from him the very next day:

“Thank you very much for the advice. I spent a good while thinking about this, and realized that although we have had erotic lovemaking before, we are not initiating it now. I talked to Kaitlin about this, and we both realized that my fears of being sexually disappointed and frustrated and her fears of being a disappointment were preventing us from initiating erotic lovemaking. We discussed what it took for us. Talking, snuggling, and then stripping is what we came up with. Then, we decided that we would set up specific days of the week to do it, so that with experience our fears will subside and our ability to let go and connect will get stronger. I also believe it will lead us to have a less stressful approach to life as well!

“Thank you for your post. Connecting with her emotionally is something we’ve had difficulty doing, in bed and out, but we found something that really helps. 6 months ago we heard about and tried Harville Hendix’s Imago Dialogue, and it has revolutionized our communication. It used to be our conversations were riddled with fear and pain, but after the dialogue, we’ve both been able to calm our fears and communicate clearly and listen with a open heart and willing mind. I highly recommend it, even though it seems weird at first. I’ve also been encouraging Kaitlin to calm down and ‘feel’ instead of stressing out about ‘performing’ for me. Connecting emotionally as you mentioned is definitely something I will be thinking about.”

Has your lovemaking has become routine? Do you feel cut off from your partner? Get back to heart-to-heart sex. Let us know what you learn in the process.

Image: photostock /

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Fill in the blanks.

As my friend and landscape designer Alida Blair recently said : “ In order to have great plants and planting schemes you need to create the spaces for them to reside in. “

Creative path work is one way to outline your planting spaces.
From there you can fill in the blanks, and if the chance should arise, instil some vertical interest by sculpting the grade.

Below are pix’s showing some blank spaces , the out line of paths and the space in between that was filled with plants.

From Before and After

From Before and After

From Beach House

From Beach House

Before the planting this was a barren slope of native grass.
From Heather Garden in Gualala CA

Before development, this was a slope covered with brambles.
From California Gardening

Cutting across and up a native hillside , the path of stone defines the planting spaces
From portfolioMay08.jpg

A drought tolerant planting with a stepping stone path dividing the space
From Alexander Valley

Low retaining walls , flagstone and a set of stone steps outlines the planting spaces.
From Hillside development

Blank slate development
From Paths

From Paths

From Paths